I am apart of this meetup group we get together and watch movies, have parties, and go out to events things like that. So this past Saturday they held a movie night and there was this guy that I haven't met before put he has been apart of the group for a few years he just never comes to events and hangouts frequently.
So he said hey my name is Jim and I introduced myself back and that was pretty much all the conversation that we had between each other that night. So we all go to the living room and he wasn't sitting beside me at first he was sitting on the opposite side of the room but I felt him looking at me I was talking to another person near me so he comes over and sits on the bean bag and tries to join the conversation then I offer him a seat beside me because he looked uncomfortable sitting on the bean bag so he sits beside me and them first movie starts and we did have the lights off.
At first I thought he was trying to flirt with me asked me if I liked cats I told him no he looked kinda nervous like he didn't know what to say. About maybe 30 mins into the movie he takes his beer can and puts it on my foot and I start giggling and we both laugh and I tell him that was cold. Then he does it again but with his hands he touches my foot with his cold hands and I start giggling again but this time I said now you made my foot cold. We start smiling at each other and looking at each other and then he touches my foot again with his cold hand and starts massaging my foot.
Now I am like kinda shocked because I have never ever had a stranger do that ever but it felt good so I let him keep going and I am looking at him and his expressions and he looks relaxed. He closed his eyes and tilted his head back and ever so often he would look at me and smile. It felt more like an intimate moment like we were already together I haven't had this happen before.
Then he ends up taking the beer in his other hand and it looks like he wants to pour it on my foot and in my head I was thinking oh he is a freak freak LOL he probably wanted to lick it off, naww I don't know about that part but I really want to know why he did that to someone he doesn't know because honestly I enjoyed and really needed that and kinda want him to do it again just in a different setting not in front of the group.
Before he left he tapped me on my shoulder and said it was nice meeting everyone and smiled at me and everybody in the room was starring at me like me and him at something going on. We have another event coming up this Friday and he is going to be there, what exactly should I say or ask I need some advice what should I do.